You Don’t Have To Be A Monk to Be a Mystic

Ever thought about becoming a monk and living in some secluded beautiful place where you can contemplate divine mysteries and become one with what is eternal?

Did you then realize that you wouldn’t be able to feed your kids or live your life and change your mind?

The good news is you don’t actually have to become a monk in order to be a mystic. The divine eternal mysteries are actually all around you and even within you.

One of the ways mystics are reared in monasteries is by living simple lives and turning away from worldly pleasures. This is because worldly pleasure, like fine foods or passionate sex or intoxicating drinks, bring us pleasure.

Now, before you say “what’s wrong with pleasure?!” know that I agree with you completely. There is nothing wrong with pleasure – including fine foods or passionate sex or intoxicating drinks.

The problem arises when we begin to think that pleasure is the goal of life. Pleasure is a nice little side benefit to life – but it’s not why we’re here – it’s not what being human is about. Thomas Merton explained this wonderfully in his book New Seeds of Contemplation when he said:

Do not look for rest in any pleasure, because you were not created for pleasure: you were created for spiritual joy. And if you do not know the difference between pleasure and spiritual joy you have not yet begun to live.

This is such an important lesson to learn, and the good news is that you can learn this in a monastery or you can learn it in the world.

Spiritual joy is nothing like pleasure.

In fact, sometimes it can feel like overwhelming sorrow, or complete nothingness. It has been described as spiritual poverty, which you may remember from the beatitudes 

Blessed are the poor in spirit for theirs is the Kingdom of Heaven.

The reason this spiritual joy is an emptiness, a nothingness, an inner poverty is because it requires one to let go of the false self. We become empty of self so that we can be filled with God and once we are filled with God everything changes.

In a certain sense we become God. But not in a proud way – not in a way that we become powerful like God. Instead, we become God in a humble way – we become God like Jesus was God.

We live the beatitudes and become meek. What our oneness with God does mean is that we can see reality, ourselves, those around us, and all of creation the way God sees it. We can love creation the way God does.

This is the greatest commandment. To Love God with all of our being and to love our neighbour as ourselves. It is to have our eyes opened so that we can see that of God in everyone. When we love God, we love our neighbour and we love ourselves because we are all one in Christ.

Meister Eckhart said this beautifully in that famous quote of his:

The eye through which I see God is the same eye through which God sees me; my eye and God’s eye are one eye, one seeing, one knowing, one love.”

So, I implore you, dear sisters and brothers, to be a mystic either in a monastery or in the world, and know that pleasures are not joy.

Turn away from worldly pleasures from time to time so that you do not become completely absorbed in them.

To be absorbed in pleasure seeking is to be selfish but to be absorbed in spiritual joy is to know God and to live in union with God’s knowing and God’s seeing.

So enjoy pleasures when they come to you but do not seek after them. Instead, seek after the Kingdom of God and the spiritual joy therein.

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13 thoughts on “You Don’t Have To Be A Monk to Be a Mystic

  1. One of the most helpful esoteric Christian articles I have read. I would like to recommend a book, Ordinary People as Monks & Mystics by Marsha Sinetar

  2. Thank you Just, though an old post but very relevant for me as I continuously seek an understanding of my purpose in life and a quest to align my life closer to God.

  3. Wow thank you so much for this post Justin. You have captured exactly what I have been walking in for some time.

  4. This is so timely for me personally, Justin, as Covid is, daily, more and more, moving me forward into a monk’s attitude, quelling my desire to turn towards stuff, as I take note of the constant idea that immediate gratification is what I need, while simultaneously choosing to “be still and know.”

  5. Yes and yes Justin. For myself becoming who I really already am in God required I wear the false self out completely and discard that old garment. Too bad it was so old that I only lost it in pieces. Took many years to stand naked before God. A good 12 step program rids us of “the old man and the lusts thereof”

  6. Thank you for sharing. Was reminded of Brother Lawrence and practicing the presence. It is an everyday activity of being conscious of our Oneness with the Almighty.

  7. Thank you, Justin. Like so many of your insights I find this inspirational and a valuable reminder not to seek after those tempting distractions, the lack of which can feel disappointing at times. I enjoy following your posts every day.

  8. Justin, you were able to capture in a few words a good description of a mystery and a paradox that it takes many decades to learn. Thank you for sharing so deeply with your readers a gateway to spiritual freedom and happiness.

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